Book “Safe Word – Manage Relationships”
When love turns into a fight - there is a way back
Discover the H.E.A.R.T. method: The scientifically sound way to stop conflicts before they destroy your relationship.
You love your partner
And yet you will find yourself again and again in the same dispute. The words become louder, the injuries deeper, and in the end you both ask yourselves: How could it get so far again?
You’re not alone. Millions of couples experience the same. But few know:It’s not because you don’t fit together. It’s because nobody ever taught you how to fight right.
This book gives you the tools you need to get out of the spiral of accusations, retreats and hurt feelings and create a relationship that does not work despite conflicts but grows through them.
The problem
Are you familiar?
- You always argue about the same topics without finding a solution.
- In hot moments you say things you regret later.
- After a fight, it takes days until you feel close again.
- You feel your partner doesn’t really understand you.
- You both don’t know how to get out of the escalation when it comes to hot.
- Sometimes you ask yourself: is this still love or habit?
The good news: There’s a way. And he begins with a single word.
The solution: The book
Safe Word – Manage relationships
With the H.E.A.R.T. method to resolve conflicts and strengthen connection
This book is not a theoretical relationship advisor. It is a practical tool for couples who do not want to give up their relationship but want to make them conscious.
What you learn in this book:
✓The Safe Word principle:How a single word in the middle of the dispute can change everything and why it is the most powerful deescalation tool you can have in your relationship.
✓The H.E.A.R.T. method:A scientifically sound 5-step technique developed by the Soul Academy, which helps you get back from combat mode in seconds.
✓Neurobiology of the dispute:What happens in your body when you fight why Cortisol makes you “dumb” and how you balance your nervous system.
✓Detecting old patterns:Why you always have the same conflicts and how you can cure the deeper wounds behind it.
✓Physical deescalation:How essential oils, breathing techniques and sound shells help you calm your body before your mind can.
✓Intimacy after conflict:Why sex often does not work after a dispute and how you find the way back to the physical connection.
✓The vision of a conscious relationship:As you come from “survival” to “fulfilling” and create a partnership that lets you both grow.
Why this book is different
- No personal history as a framework – only real solutions
- This book doesn’t tell my story. It provides you with concrete, scientifically sound tools that you can apply from the first page.
- The H.E.A.R.T. method – developed exclusively by the Soul Academy
- This method is nowhere else. It combines neurobiology, mindfulness, Ho’oponopono and HeartMath principles into a unique approach that works.
- Scientifically sounded, humanly written
- We don’t just quote studies. We translate them into a language you understand and in practices you can implement right away.
- For men, women and couples
- This book is not only written for women who want to work on the relationship. It’s for everyone who wants to understand what really happens when we fight, and they want to learn how to do it better.
- No sales book – a gift
- This book doesn’t sell you anything. There’s everything you need to transform your relationship. Point.
Who is this book for?
This book is for you when…
- You’re in a relationship and regain the same conflicts.
- You love your partner, but you don’t know how to find each other.
- You want to understand why you lose control in disputes and how you can change that.
- You don’t want superficial tips anymore, but you want real tools.
- You are willing to take responsibility for your relationship instead of just hoping that the other will change.
- You think relationships are work, but also joy, growth and deep connection can be.
This book is NOT for you when…
- You’re looking for a magic formula that works without your involvement.
- You’re not ready to let go of old patterns and go new ways.
- You are in a relationship where violence, abuse or deep toxic dynamics prevail. (In this case, you need professional help – and this book can accompany you, but not replace.)
What you get
- 📖11 chapter full of practical tools
- There are no filling pages from the first page to the last. Each chapter has a clear focus, each tool is immediately applicable.
- 🧠Scientifically sounded content
- Over 30 scientific studies in the fields of neurobiology, stress research, binding theory and aromatherapy form the foundation of this book.
- 💚The H.E.A.R.T. method
- The heart of the book: A 5-step technique that helps you find yourself and your partner in any conflict situation.
- 🌿Holistic approaches
- From essential oils to sound bowls to Ho’oponopono: This book combines modern science with millennial wisdom traditions.
- 🔥Bonus Chapter: Sexuality and Intimacy after Conflicts
- A subject that no one speaks about, but that every couple knows: How do you find a fight back to physical proximity?
About the author
Dirk Eichler is coach, trainer and founder of the Soul Academy. As a certified life coach, HeartMath© trainer, Ho’oponopono trainer and meditation instructor, he combines knowledge with spiritual depth.
For this book he developed the H.E.A.R.T. method, a unique 5-step technique for deescalation in relationship conflicts. As a man, Dirk writes for men, women and couples alike. He knows from his own experience how hard it can be to keep control in conflicts, and how liberating it is to find a way that leads out of the struggle.
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Common questions
Do I have to read the book with my partner?
- No. You can start alone. You can use many tools immediately, even if your partner (still) does not go along. Your change often creates a new dynamic that both of you bear.
Is this book only for heterosexual couples?
- No. The principles in this book apply to all relationships, regardless of gender or sexual orientation.
Does the book replace a pair therapy?
- No. If your relationship has deep injuries, trauma or toxic patterns, professional help is essential. This book can be a valuable supplement, but do not replace therapy.
Are there also workshops or coaching sessions?
- Yes! The Soul Academy offers pair coachings and workshops on the H.E.A.R.T. method. More
Your relationship deserves it
- You only have a life. And you have the choice as you live.
- You can hope that something will change.
Or you can take the first step today. - This book is the first step.
- Order now and start the way back to the connection.
